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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a problem. Ii like this guy who just moved to my school this year. We always text each other, but don't talk much face to face because I'm to shy. When i first met him, I helped him hook up with this girl he liked at his old school. Now i really like him and i dont know what to do? but lately we've been talking more and more and I think we're becoming closer friends. I don't know what to do? please help.
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reader, Who +, writes (12 May 2009):
 You should relax.
You should continue to see this boy you like as a friend. You should be friends with other boys as well. You should remember teenagers are just starting out in the romance business and it will take a little time for you, this boy you like, the girl he is currently hooked up with to figure it all out. Remember the other teenagers don’t know what to do any more than you do. Yet.
Eventually you all are going to start asking each other out. None of you will know what you want at the start. There is nothing wrong will seeing a few different boys at the same time, as long as you are not going steady (have not made a commitment.) This is the only way you are going to find out what you want.
(Notice we are talking about casually dating here, not sleeping around.)
You should expect a few broken hearts, both your and the boys decide to stop seeing. It is going to be rough at times, but I didn’t invent this system. Almost everyone goes though a few broken hearts, and you will get over them just like everyone else.
Best of luck and hope this helps.
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