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writes:Basically, I can't handle it any longer.Life is just way way too hard. My parents make me split up with the guy I love, my bestfriends don't want anything to do with me. Rumors are going round about me. My family hate me for many reasons. People say don't change just because people don't like you, but should I because everyone seems to be having a go at me because of who I am????I'm not a complete idiot so I wont commit suicide or anything but I don't see the point in anything at the moment. I know it will get better but I really just don't see when...What the hell should I do ??x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): People should typically not change just because of someone's opinion, but there are some things that people actually should change that would make them better people. Now, i have no idea what you are like, but if you possess certain characteristics that are clearly just not likeable then you could try to change. (examples include: dishonesty, unfailthfulness, cattiness, lack of moral/self-respect/dicipline/standard).
What are these reasons that you think everyone hates you? And is it possible that you're parents make you split up with this guy because he's genuinly not a good guy to be around? I don't know the details here and you can message me with them at any time that you'd like, but just know,
that there is a point. Your life changes every day. Every decision you make every person you come across, every place you go everyday can change your life in ways that you will never understand so where you see yourself in 10 years and where you end up in 10 years may be completely different truths. Don't give up. Just try to better yourself if that's what needs to be done. Talk to the peopel who you are comflicting with and see what's really going on, and make goals for yourself so that you ahve direction, and things to look forward to.
That way, you are not just sitting there, scrambled and confused about what's going on.
Everything WILL be ok and there IS a point to today, tomorrow, and every day after that.
If you can't focus on the good in your life, focus on trying to help other poeple with their lives.
Are you an Agony aunt? Maybe you could become one and learn how everyday people react to situations when they're hurt or angry. Learn how to relate to the people on this site and then relate that to your life.
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