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writes:i am in high school and i think my algebra teacher likes me. first i want 2 say i do not like him other than a teacher and nothing more. but him i am not so sure about. he always is staring at me and flirts with me. one time i was absent for like a week and he asked my best friend "where is Christina?" she said "she is sick " he said "i miss her so much. i keep having to stare at her picture just to remember what she looks like". one time he came behind me and whispered in my ear "algebra is your favorite class, then he moved in closer and said "and I AM your favorite teacher and walked away and smiled. he tells me he loves me sometimes and another time we were getting ready to leave the class and he said something dumb so i said "u r such a weirdo" he said "u know u love me" i said "oh yeah, i love all the weirdos" he said "no JUST ME" does it sound like he likes me or is it just me? thanks :D
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reader, mysterious_blonde_lady  +, writes (3 June 2009):
In response to female anonymous: shit, your teacher is being entirely innappopriate more than that; he is being disrespectful towards you andf treating you like some kind of sex object. What he said about you to that boy was horrid. You should not stand for that, it's degrading. You deserve better!
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reader, mysterious_blonde_lady +, writes (3 June 2009):
ew. This man is mentally challenged. He is obviously attracted to you and not in a good way, what he said to your friend is extremely disturbing and he needs to be reported. He is obsessed with you, and being obvious about it, you not rejecting him is convincing him that you like the attention, therefore it will continue and will worsen. This man is a predator, he targets, at the moment you are probably one of his lesser targets; but be warned he has done this before. And will do it again. There is a need for you to take control over this situation before it spirals out of control and before you know it he is holding all the strings warning you that if you donm't do what he wants you wont get the grade you hoped for. This man has issues, and needs to be told where to go. This is sexual harassment and is highly innappropriate for a teacher, he should not be teaching. It worries me enough to consider whether he is potentially a rapist. Do not ever spend time alone with him, and tell as many people about him as possible, if it continues you need to take charge and show him it is not acceptable; he clearly does not respect you or your bounderies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): I know how you guys feel. One time i wasn't at my gym class & my science teacher came in and told this kid that likes me if "he got with me yet" and he said "no". My teacher says back to him, "your an idiot, i wouldve". So i don't know if he has the same feelings, but i reallly like him. I thought that was kinda wierd, at what he said but he basically meant if he was my age, he would've made out with me. I've liked him for 2 years now, and i really hope i get over him soon. I'd just feel wierd if he liked me back, cause he's 32 and im 15. He bothers me a lot, and sometimes it gets annoying. He's very immature but he's funny. And it's wierd, cause he doesn't bother the other girls like he does with me. One time he told me to move back a little in front of this kid, and he told him "she's cute huh?". People say that he is very perverted, and they've heard stories that he's gotten with the older girls. So i'll try to watch out [; Just a reminder that if you like your teacher and you think he likes you back, talk to it with someone, cause you never know if he can do "something" to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): I hope you've taken a step to tell him or a trusted adult you're not comfortable with his chit chat. You should feel safe with your teachers. Maybe even transfer to a different algebra teacher. I'm 40 now, but in middle school I noticed a 30+ teacher staring at me and thought it was nothing. Then he came up to me at my locker and said quietly, "If I was only your age" I felt sick because I didn't even know him or have him for a teacher. (divine intervention)You would be very brave to tell someone, and possibly prevent him from creeping out other girls too. xoxo
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (28 March 2009):
 Like Bubbloo said you have posted this before, you need to tell, your headteacher/ parents about this.
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reader, DannyD +, writes (28 March 2009):
 maybe he is trying to be a cool teacher and trying to be nice and get along. my teacher does that to but he does'nt like me I CANT STAND HIM actually but he is trying to be a nicer teacher to me so i don't hate him no more.THE MAN GAVE ME A C+
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (28 March 2009):
 You have posted this question before and if you were told then that you should speak to someone of high authority about this and you were told that it was just in your mind, I suggest you take the advice given to you there and stop wasting your time and other people's time by repeating a question that has already been answered.
If it wasn't the answer you wanted then I'm afraid you will get the same response now.
Speak to someone of higher authority IF he is making such advances. I have a feeling that in a class of 18 year olds + that someone would have recognised this as an issue that needed raising by someone higher up in the school.
However, what ever the situation is, deal with it in an adult fashion. Don't keep churning out the same question in the hope that we'll tell you to take advantage of the teacher's advances because you won't find that answer here.
Do the right thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): you need to tell your head teacher about this. it is not acceptable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): he is like 46 and i am 17.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): just you.
how old is he?
star.x.
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