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writes:I am 61 years old and a widower for 5 years. I recently found the girl I was dating before my late wife. She lives fairly close to me and after a little phone tag we finally talked for almost two hours about when we were teenagers and so much in love along with the normal reminissing. She has been divorced for about 13 years and isn't looking for another marriage. Neither am I. She is currently dating someone, I am not. When we ended our phone conversation, I told her I would like to get together for lunch or dinner if she felt comfortable with it. I ended with if you want to call me. It has been almost a week and not call. Should I call her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): If she's dating someone I can understand her dithering about whether to call you or not. Maybe she would feel she's cheating. I suppose a lot depends on what your ultimate goal is. If it's romance you'd be wise to let her make up her mind about which man she'd prefer to be with and wait for her call, but if it's simply lunch or dinner to chat about old times etc., why not phone and invite both her and her partner to join you?
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