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writes:HELP!ive just been told some really shocking news it feels almost like a close family members death.im 18 and i have been speaking and meeting up with a guy for about a month now, im interested and hes interested in me.whats basically happened is he's recently broke up with his ex and i knew this since i started talking to him.today about 10 minutes ago he told me that he has been sleeping with one of his friends and didnt want to tell me because he would know what reaction i would give him.he said they wouldnt get involved emotionally with each other because of personal reasons which i dont want to disclose on this website ( sorry ).well he has told me its the only reason he is friends with me while occassionally flirting, but he has made me think that im just his.... fall back guy? i dont want to stop talking to him, because to be honest i dont care at all that he has this sex, but he told me he isnt over his ex.... this is where it confused me.i really dont know how i should feel but shocked? can someone give me their opinion on what i should do next?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): hi,
I guess its really up to you what you should do next. If you are not okay with him sleeping with his friend, then you should break it off. It definitely sounds like you are his "fall back guy." Think on it for a couple of days, and then make a decision.
I hope you've been safe.
Good luck.
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