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Should I expect my man only to be interested in sex when we met whilst I was working in the sex industry?

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Question - (28 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2010)
A female Canada age 51-59, *oreen writes:

after meeting my man while i worked in the sex industry, should i have expected him to only show interest in being with me if we were having sex?

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A female reader, doreen Canada +, writes (21 April 2010):

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doreen agony auntWow, i had forgotten about writing this question. Because i'm new to this site, and because an answer to my question took a while i thought that no one cared. It is great to now know different. Thank you all for your thoughts on this matter. I am involved with this same man.( going on 7 years now) He was very affectionate when we first met and he made me feel like a lady in all ways. As time went by i experience different things with him,...mostly though, he helped me believe in myself again. I am able to TRUST again and I think my original question was rooted from my inability to trust. Isn't it funny how a lifestyle can affect a person. Anyhow, once again, "Thank you." The different input from the people who answered my question also played a big part in my emotional development.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (28 March 2009):

Danielepew agony auntNo, if he showed interest in you, you were perfectly entitled to expect him to be interested in a lot more than just sex. You were perfectly entitled to expect him to be interested in all of you.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (28 March 2009):

No, if he wanted sex then he'd have to pay. If he wanted a relationship then he could date you and love you.

If he didn't date you and love you then he just wanted a freebie and was not worth your while.

You have to know to make them wait, to make them prove that they care.

Good Luck!! xx

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