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writes:ok this might sund abit harash but honestly its not meant like that lol. I'm just wondering if a guy gives you VERY mixed signals on whether he likes you or not is there anyway of getting him to admit to someone that he likes you? Right because it was obvious this lad liked me although he enyed it to a friend but still showed it(i can see why at the time because i wasn't the most likely person of the group back then because someone was spreading lies about me because she was jealous, sorted now tho :) ) and hes also liked someone else in the group but when he had the courage to ask her she turned him down. Thing is things are abit awkward like he dont talk to me a lot and stuff he wont seem to mess around with me but theres just something there that says he still has feelings for me.Thing is we leaving college soon and i just wonered is there anyway not necessarily me but a friend of ours can try and trick him into admit how he feels about me? i don't mean it to sound cruel but is there anyway to get that information out of a guy that is not one to admit to stuff and show his feelings?Oh btw when me an him were at a aprty afew monthd ago e started rambling onto my mate about people and he said "(my name)'s nice but it'll never happen. u know..) he wasn't totally drunk when he said that but something must have been going through his mind at the time..(also that night he told me to sit on his knee i think lol, he must of said it because i answered him and i wouln't becuz i didnt want it to be awkward lol)anyway please let me know if you can think of any way to do this! thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): I'm in my thirties and I have felt the same way. Does he like me ... what do his mixed signals mean? So I think you should disregard the condescending response above. One thing that is true though, if a guy likes you, he shows it. It is really hard not to get caught up in wishful thinking. But the reality is, if something was going to happen, it will happen. Why trick the guy into talking when you are capable of talking to him yourself? Lose the guy and get over it. If he wanted to be with you he would make it happen. You'll feel a lot happier about the situation the minute you stop thinking about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): Well, I am not in your age range or culture, hon, but some things are pretty universal. You fancy him and he seems "not averse" to you, so you are thinking he may have "feelings" he is not admitting to. It may be wishful thinking on your part. Most 17-18 yr old dudes know very well how to make their feelings known, unless they are terribly shy and backward. And I would not depend on a "friend" to get info from him about how he feels about you. And this all leads me to think you are really much younger than you say. (smile) I am not trying to put you down, hon, but really "mature" girls of seventeen-eighteen usually do not waste time worrying about a dude who has made no effort to even talk to them. So, why don't you ask your question again ...and give your real age? (smile) Many "aunties" could then give better answers and advice.
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