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writes:heyy can ppl please help me understand this its driving me crazy ... my ex boyfriend was at the same party as me last week ... when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him even thou he broke my heart .. after stuff that he told my best mate i decided i had enough of making an effort with him so i decided to keep my distance from him that night .. it suceeeded cos he said hi to me and that was it so i knew where i stood with him ... the next night i was receiving heaps of texts off him like did u enjoy the party and he was asking how everything was and stuff anyway it was getting really late and i fell asleep .. in the morning i woke up with 15 text messages from him saying y rnt u talking to me and where r u and stuff like that .. i was really surprised considering he doesn't want me to txt him lol .. anyway he appolgised in he morning and said he was drinking ... so i asked him y he always txts me when hes drinking and y does he do it to me cos he knows i still love him loads he said he didnt know and that i didnt deserve it at all and hes really sorry .. we werre texting all day which was weird cos we dont really see or text eachother... later that evening he txt me and asked me if i was up 4 a root .. i said yea cos i love him and want to be with him ..i went around to his place .. when i got there he gave t me the biggest cuddle which never happens .. we had sex but this time it was diff cos he was just wanting to kiss me and be more affectionate than he ususally was ... we have had sex once b4 after our break up but this time was different .. i was saying my goodbyes to him but he satred to cudddle me and made me lay down to go to sleep so i did we both fell asleep in the morning i was leaving cos i had to work early as i was getting ou t of bed he said u cant go till i get a cuddle so i gave him one it was great just to hold him was awesome he walked me to the door and he wanted more cuddles ..the thing is with him hes not an affectionate person and the last time we had sex he wanted me to go home and was no where near as affectionate with me ... im really confused with him is he sending mixed signals or is he being a duche just to keep me hanging
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question from a guys pov what do u think hes trying to do .. is he doing it to keep me hanging ... is he really over me . y do u think he is doing it .. i know i should move on but i cant cos im soooooo in love with him and he bes like this to me .. it doesnt help me get over him at all ... i just would like others opinion lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): He's probably being a douche but isn't necessarily aware of it. It sounds like you guys broke up because he wasn't that into you. But now that he's on his own and sees how hard it is to get play he's starting to appreciate more what he had going with you - especially when he's drunk and horny.I'd say cut your losses and break off constant until you get over him, or you'll just keep hurting yourself over and over again everything he manages to sort of get his act together and be affectionate.
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