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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been in a very loving relationship for 8 months now. My boyfriend is so caring, understanding, lovely... everything I could ask for and we very rarely argue.When we first together we had sex basically every day. This is how I was with my ex boyfriend too, I've always had a very high sex drive.However this past month I have noticed greatly a change in my sex drive, I really don't feel like it at all and I have no idea why. I still find my boyfriend unbelievably sexy and we havent argued at all. We must have had sex only 8 times in the past month and I'm thinking my boyfriend's sex drive has changed too as he doesn't always try it on.Has anyone else gone through this in such early stages of a realtionship? Is there anything I can do to make me want to have sex again? I want to feel sexy and horny again, I do miss the intimacy and don't know what's wrong?
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reader, 2old4this  +, writes (29 March 2009):
 Well, it's ok not to want to have sex as much. You may be a little burnt out. My girl and I only have sex about once or twice a week, but that may have alot to do with the fact I dont get to see her alot. But even when we are together we dont always because life happens. We are sometimes too tired, or we just dont feel like it. But if you feel like something is wrong maybe go to the doc and be sure.
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reader, ladydette  +, writes (29 March 2009):
 How old are you by the way? Losing interest in sex at a young age is strange. or you must be doing it more often. Just like a routine.
Why not try new things with your boyfriend? Do something together that he is interested with.You can also discuss it with him and see what he would say about that.Take it slow from there then find out where you left off.
If you're still really bothered and this doesn't work ,see a professional for medical help.:)
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