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How can he be so ignorant of my feelings

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Question - (28 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2009)
A female Netherlands age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey guys..

I need you to answer me one question. Here's all short story. There's a guy which i'm totally attracted to. He's 24 and i'm 19. I'm quite pretty and a lot of guys would love to be with me. I know, he doesn't have girlfriend. We've been together one night, kissing and i guess he just wanted to have sex with me. I'm used to that kind of stuff and i didn't let him to do anything. When we were talking, i noticed that he wants to have a girlfriend. He's not particulary good looking, i guess i'm the only girl who is attracted to him that much. I mean seriously, everytime i see him (that's like once a month), i see kind of perfection in him and i want to be with him, touch him, talk to him, sleep with him, be with him. I see him usually in the bar where he's with bunch of his friends, drinking beer and talking. Last time when i saw him in one party, he was drunk and catched him staring at me just like he had stared at me the night we've been together. And that haven't happened just once. So a couple of months ago, i sent him messege if he would like to go for a drink with me. And he did not answer. So my question is how some people can be so ignorant? I would answer anybody just to say no, i don't have time for you, goodbye. Why some people don't answer messeges, instead simply note that they're not interesting?

Any tips how to get more closer to him with the fact, that he's always with bunch of his friends i hardly know?

Thanks.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009):

Thank you so much for your answers.

I'm sure his phone wasn't dead and he doesn't work a lot, he spend a lot of time on facebook so answer this kind of messege wasn't big deal. I was thinking that he might not want to go out from his friend's circle, he hangs around only with guys and girls he know well and he just doesn't show interest to get to know new people. I don't know.. this is kind of weird and in my opinion, stupid. I just want to know him better, that's all.

anyway, thanks.

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