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writes:Ok. So I'm dating this guy and I love him dearly and we've been dating for 1 year and almost 7 months, but everyone I know/work with say I can do better. There's a coworker that I like a lot and he likes me back. He's completely sweet, makes sure I'm careful driving home, is fun to be around and talk to. I miss him when he isn't working and I am. The guy I'm dating always asks questions like, "when you get a break" "when you leaving" "what's left" "whats taking so long" and when I leave he says "finally". It seems to me like he's controling. In a way I want to leave him but I don't. He means the world to me and I couldn't see life without him being a part of it, but I'm starting to have strong feelings for my co-worker.I don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): choices, choices...
choice a: talk to guy you are dating - and explain the control stuff.
choice b: dump guy - go with co worker. then have all the office stuff to deal with.
hmmm i would go with a first. but lets face it you are always going to look at other people and they will look at you. just as i drive my Ferrari - i look at other cars.
enjoy the freindship of the second person.
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