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writes:This guy left me for another girl. It's been a week. She is prettier and more popualar. I feel really gutted. But also, we parted on bad terms and I can't ever speak to him again, and I know for a fact he will never contact me ever again. I miss him a lot. I used to share everything with him, I'd love to call him from time to time just to find out how his life is going and tell him about mine. But I can't. it's killing me :( Reply to this Question
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reader, iSmil3y  +, writes (28 March 2009):
You'll find someone better, and you said it's only been a week, so yes, you will feel hurt. Try to get over him, it might take a while but work on it. If you'd like to still be friends, text him or call him and let him know you'd love to still be friends and maybe he feels the same way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): dont worry yourself out, look at this realistically
you broke up on bad terms
hes with someone else now..
wat are the chances or the point of talking to him?? she may be preetier or more popular, but maybe shes a rebound?
dont work urself up over this..and dont feel like u want him. you may jus be feeling that hes moved on and your still fixated to him. jus leave him to it, for him to move on as fast as he has hes not that bothered, act like u dont care either.
just text him sayin your sorry for the way things ended with you two and hope somewhere down the line you still can be friends. and leave it at that. dont text anymore call...let him make the next mmove
if he dont then just move on.. and forget about him!
he really aint worth it if he cant keep your friendship on mutual terms xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): Trust me, go ahead and feel hurt and cry your eyes out, but there are truly a thousand other men that are just around the corner who want to be with you and think you're gorgeous.
Good job at resisting the urge to contact him; not worth it.
Men are like a bus terminal: just get there and choose your ride.
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