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Are we over? He hasn't called in a week

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Question - (28 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm seeing this guy that I have known for several months. We are on spring break now but at school, we communicate about every other day via calls/texts and I go over to his place a lot. We act like a couple when we are together, and the day before break, he spent the night and we slept together (literally slept, no sex) I asked him what exactly we were and he said that he really likes me and wants to see where this goes. He asked me what I thought and I said I think we're dating and he said I think so too. We've been seeing each other for 2 weeks now so I dont know if its too early to get excusive or what. We are back in our hometowns for break and we havent talked for a week and its the longest we have gone without communicating. Well, actually a couple of days ago he commented on one of my pictures (not of me though) on facebook so I guess he was looking at my profile. I dont want to call him because I feel like Im always contacting him and he doesnt do it as much. I thought maybe he is distracted being home and seeing everyone again but then I see that he goes on facebook a lot and I know he called his friend so its not like he cant pick up the phone. We will be back at school next week and I dont even know what to say to him. He cant even send a simple text saying hi or something? Is this his way of saying we are over?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009):

You say you'll both be back in school next week? I think you should relax and enjoy the rest of your time at home and just see what he says when you see him next week. Don't jump to any conclusions now, wait and see if he does contact you before you're both back at school, and if not, act friendly, casual, and see what happens.

Meantime, no, don't text or phone him now......

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