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writes:I am in love with my friends with benefits....he is my ex boyfriend. we became best friends and then we went to being friends with benefits. the thing is that i have fallen for him and i don't know what to do. he is a really sweet guy. we have dated twice before but as he states he cannot be in a relationship as he always mucks it up. i dont know what to do!! please help me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): see, he now knows i like him..and hes like we need to stop doing what we are...but then he called me and said that i cant do this..i cant not talk to you..so i dont know what he means anymore!!!i do like him a lot..and im sure he isnt using me cause we were best friends before all this...- Person who asked question
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (29 March 2009):
 To the anonymous poster: are you 15? No really, if you are going to contradict my answers please don't do it anonymously as it discredits your answers!
If our poster was a crack addict, would it be ok for her boyfriend to give her crack? And then blame her for taking it? He has to take some responsability.
To our Poster: What if you accidently get pregnant to this guy, will he stick by you then?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009): No, he is not using you. Dont buy that idea. He has stated his intentions clearly. So he is NOT using you. Since he has stated that he cant be in a relationship, it is upto you to decide if this will be Ok for you.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (28 March 2009):
Wow! he's in the perfect relationship sex on tap and none of the responsibility! This is not FWBs, it is using a girl that loves him to have his cake and eat it!
Sweetheart he is using you, he knows you love him so he, can mess you around as much as he likes and when he finds another girl he can do the same to her also!
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