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writes:Ok.Me and this guy had been texting, bumping into eachother on the odd occasion and having very few one-to-one sit down chat sessions to start off with. But one thing is sure, there was some major sexual chemistry between us both. A month ago he visited me (spur of the moment thing). God its something that should of happened from day one really. I can't get enough of him. We had sex, amazing sex. On the way to mine that night, he told me he loved me as he put the phone down. I was very shocked by this, as me and him from what i knew, we're just single people looking for some fun. So after we had sex, i automatically realised i had great feelings for him. Hes an odd guy, dry humoured, bizarre and hard looking. Last week he took me out for a meal, invited me back to his and instead of immediately sleeping together- he opened up to me about his tough upbringing and not being able to trust his parents. We are so much closer now than what we were. I could definitely see something serious starting between us...as its not just sex for both of us now. The problem is; is that i'm going to work in France for 6 months next week. Obviously i didn't tell him till 2 weeks ago. I'm going to miss him so much and he finds it annoying that i'm going and always shrugs when i mention france. Its a shame really, as ive only got a week left in the uk and things are really looking up for both of us. I'm seeing him tomorrow night and i'm planning on speaking to him about me and him. Should i start something now? Should i leave it all together? Should i wait till i get back and see what happens?One thing for sure...I really like him.
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reader, UnfinishedSymphony +, writes (28 February 2009):
UnfinishedSymphony is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for your advice. You have both helped me by making things clearer :)x x x
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (28 February 2009):
If it's going to be long distance and hard and horrible, I think that could ruin what you both have now.
Go to France, have a great time, grow as a person.
When you come back you can see what happens but I think you should not make any promises to eachother at this stage, and just keep in touch when you can.
Hard to do but worth it if you both realise you are ready to settle down and not want anyone else but eachother when you get back.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anon642 +, writes (28 February 2009):
 Yes talk to him, ask him what he would like to come of you two.This sounds so so so cute :)Anyway..6 months, will honestly fly by. It really will..i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months now and i can't believe how quick its gone (i'm in a long-distance relationship by the way)Is there any way he can see you in france at summer?Really i think that you should just talk to him, you seem open with each other so just tell him exactly how you feel and take it from there.As for missing him, the internet is great for that these days..msn and video calling etc.But yeah, talk to him.All the best:) x
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