A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: There is a huge problem. For the past couple of weeks, every time my girlfriend and I have sex, I don't last... at all. I last maybe a couple minutes, and then bam. This never used to happen up until pretty recently, and I feel like there's nothing I can do about it, it is driving me fucking insane and I can't even imagine how it must be bothering the shit out of her. I feel like an old man, please help.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (28 February 2009):
The anonymous male reader is correct - older men tend to last much longer, although other problems may develop eventually. You're apparently at the age when your hormones are so powerful, you are super horny. The masturbation technique may work, or consider pleasing your partner first with either G-spot massage, cunnilingus or both. Once she has had one or more orgasms, it won't matter so much when you pop-off quickly. Another timing technique I have used is having your girl blow you off right away, then do her with tongue and fingers for an hour or so (or until she insists that you stop), then go for an intercourse finish.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): First of all, an "old man" would last a long time, so you are wrong there. As for lasting longer, a few hours before sex-time with your girlfriend, masturbate to orgasm. Then when it come time for sex, you should do fine.
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