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writes:Im really young but my boyfriend and I want to have sex. we have fooled around naked but never did it for real. should we go for it or wait.[Moderator's note: Please add your real ages in case you registered with a wrong age which is the one that will be displayed. Thank you.] Reply to this Question
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reader, jumpsuit01  +, writes (1 March 2009):
 I Made this mistake, how long have you been dating him? what is your relationship like? If you just like him and there is no love there.. i would say wait till you find that person who gives you butterflies everytime they walk into the room, when they look at you in the eyes you can see love. when they hugg you you feel 100% safe and at ease.Don't just do because its what he wants, dont just do it because everyone is doing it, think about how much you like this boy and how much will things change if you decided to.Also talk to him about it, make sure your completly comfortable with him, because honestly sex seems like this big magical thing, but once it happends...it seems soo much less important. Think with your heart, and listen to what its telling you first.Good luck xx
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (28 February 2009):
 How old is really young?If you feel safe with having sex with your boyfriend then go for it but make sure you wear a condom.Talk things over with your boyfriend, believe me it helps you feel even more safe with him.Good luck Liviax
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (28 February 2009):
 You should wait if you are 1. Under the age of consent in your State. 2. Not sure if you are ready.
When you are ready make sure he wears a condom.
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