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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Please help. What is it with me. I spilt up with my ex 6 months ago. I have thought bout him everyday missing him. Wishing he was here. Wandering what hes doing.wanting him back. He has just come to me and said that he loves me so much and realises what he had with me. He was nasty to me and run me down.and yet i did everything 4 him! Now im unsure to take him back.even though i want him i dont trust him.he made me really paranoid as he has a reputation of a womiser. My family and friends say he is like this. Deep down i know he is but want to believe he isnt as he is so convincing when hes so sweet and nice and lovin to me when we were together.he told me he has been with two other girls in 6 months but not slept wiv them on his kids life. Cos all he did was compare them to me. I dont know what to believe. He says he changed.doesnt want to be going out getting drunk with his mates all the time anymore! Hes 30.i have asked him that if he wants me back and to prove his love 4 me would he go round to my parents an say sorry 4 what he has said and done to me. And if he convinced them hed changed then he would convince me.he said he couldnt do it. If he loved me wouldnt he do it? I want a man to look after me and treat me well. Ive never had that. Do i settle for him? Or go out and move on. Ive been invited out tomorrow by a nice man.should i go. Otherwise i just think bout my ex what he doing and how hes being nice to everyone but i know what hes like. This has been going on two year on/off would he of moved in by now or maybe got engaged if he was serious bout me. Why does he tell me he wants me and marry me but dont do nothing? Does he just want me lingering on cos thats what id doing. Help but hes so convincing?
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (28 February 2009):
 Go out with the other man and drop this loser!! He sounds like he hasn't changed, he's unwilling to commit to you and he does not repect you or else he would apologise to your parents. Move on! X
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