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writes:help me!i cant help but text this guy when im drunk (not saying anything bad tho)sometimes he texts me back..and we talk..i texted him last night..saying something unnecessary ..something i didnt need to sayhasnt texted backgoing to see him at college on mondayHELP!deleted his numnber to stop it happening again (got txts from him so have his number still if u get me)last time this happened he didnt mention iti feel like a fool...why on earth did i do it?!!!!!arg!
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reader, anon642  +, writes (28 February 2009):
 Why don't you text him today, and say 'Hey sorry for last night, i was soo drunk..hope i didn't bother you?' And see if he replies..if he does just ask what he's been up to today and if he's enjoying college or something..one or two texts will be fine, it will take the edge of everything and then when you see him in college you can smile and say hi..then in a few days you can smile and ask if he's alright etc..build it up from there.
If he doesn't text back, then when you see him monday just smile as you pass and leave it as that.
Hope this helps :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit wasnt something mean or nasty..so he wont be upet- you see..i dnt want him to be annoyed that i always txt him when im drunk..
and ur right..it is an excuse..i gotta stop! lol
hopefully he just thought it was silly and deleted it..i dunno
i dnt wanna see him at college!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): Well the first thing of course is to stop getting so drunk I suppose. But perhaps the "I was just sooooo drunk" story is an excuse because you are too shy to approach this guy under normal circumstances?
You don't say what you texted him but I guess he isn't happy about it. Use this opportunity to talk to him face to face, apologize if you need to, and start some real lines of communication going.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah..theres no doubt that i have a crush on him..and i have possibly made it clear in txt convos we have had..
but gosh..i feel soooo silly!!!
thanks for ur help tho..how do i stop myself to do this?!
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reader, lOlyMarie +, writes (28 February 2009):
 Well maybe you have interest in this guy. And you want his attention so you text him when your drunk your more loose.
I think you did it because you honestly wanted to say it, get it out there. But when you realized you said it and who you sed it 2 you freaked out. Depending what you said he probably doesn't feel there's any need to mention it. Depending on what type of quy he is.
Thats my thOuqhts, and if yOur reading this thanx fOr listening. =]
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