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writes:When you kissing a guy, what should you do with your hands? I always end up doing nothing with then when he is having a good feel but I am a little shy to feel him, will that come with confidence, even when he put my hands on him, I just kinda freeze.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): I have never kissed before, but I would just suggest a good hug. I've hugged my not-yet-official girlfriend and we both really enjoy it. It'll make you feel close and it'll make her feel safe and warm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): if he puts his hands on your waist wrap your arms around his neck
but if he puts his hands like on your neck, face, ect. you put your hands on his waist.
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reader, anon642 +, writes (28 February 2009):
 Well if your only looking to get a bit of confidence with this then 2 hands on his neck, or one on his kneck and one sort of in his hair, or just his sides will do..or then again give him a hug whilst you kiss him, or sort of wrap your arms loosely so that they sort of hug himbut your hands rest just above his bum (so lower back, just rest them) There's a few, just relax :)
Hope this helps :) x
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (28 February 2009):
 I usually take the opportunity to feel my guys hips and torso. Nothing weird or aggressive, but I'll hold on hand at his hip and maybe let one travel up and down along his ribs and chest. Just something slow and soothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): Well I always find that I take a little bit more liberty with my hands when I've been dating the girl for a while and when I find out what specifically she likes.I used to be really shy about doing much of anything with a girl. It's only been recently that I've gotten the confidence to kiss a girl Personally, if I like the girl enough to kiss her then I like her using her hands in just about any way that's not painful or uncomfortable for me. Trust me if a guy is kissing you then he wouldn't mind you touching him while you're kissing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): hey...
you should just put your hands around his kneck nd den wen u do feel comfortable enough put ur hands up his t-shirt on his back nd den move dem round.
if ur not comportable with feeling him u should def just have ur hands around his kneck or hold his hands.
good luck...
k...x
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