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female
age
30-35,
*bvball
writes:My boyfriend of a year broke of with me in november by text message. I know right? bad news.... We didnt talk for about a month until he texted me in january wanting to see our dog that we had together. Trying not to be a bitch i went and took the dog and saw him. He asked me if i was seeing anyone and we just made conversation and filled each other in on our lives. We left that night and he got mad at me for telling him that i was seeing other guys. We didnt talk once again for another month and just last monday i get a text message from him asking how i am doing. He wanted me to come over to talk so thinking it was going to be important i did. He fully started talking to me about my life and asking me whats new once again and than just started making out with me and we ended up having sex. He even had my pillows still on his bed and was being super sweet. He told me that he wants to talk still and hang out when we can but keep things simple so we dont screw them up again. We texted for the next two days but then i realized it was always me initiating conversation. I told my coworkers and everyone told me to stop talking to him and make him come to me. My question is.... what do i do when he calls/ texts me again in the next few days.... I want him to realize he wants me and i understand that if im there all the time... he wont want to be with me.. .the guys like the chase but what can i do in order for him to understand and not use me as a booty call. I know for a fact he still has feelings for me but guys i just dont understand. He misses me he says and wants to kiss me again.. but i dont want just to be the booty call... What do i do when he texts me again? do i respond or do i wait or what? Im nervous that he will give up after texting me a few times if i dont respond... what do you think?
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (28 February 2009):
 He got angry because you were seeing other people, which means his attempts at a rebound shag didn't work.
He is now trying it on with you as you were the last girl he slept with.
It's all part of the breaking up process if you hadn't met someone and he'd slept with a couple of people he'd be happy and would have moved on. It's all about his self-esteem, don't fall for it!
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