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female
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30-35,
*eartbreakalley
writes:About 5 months ago the love of my life broke up with me, said he didn't love me anymore.. after I had just went up to El Paso, Texas to visit with him. I fell in love with him all over again and then I started nagging him and I think thats what triggered him to not want to be with me, cause he never spent time with me alot, and then sigh spiraling downward. I said I would fight for him then I wrote him an email a few months later saying I give up, then five days later I told him I still loved him and wanted to be with him and he was telling his friends that he still had feelings for me then after all this time,....I find out about a girl who he is interested in - as in for sexual fun. She has a boyfriend already...I guess my question is: Will he ever think of me? Am I..important? I was with him for 3 years..I dont get it, I still love him, I don't know whats wrong with me, half a year almost and hes still fresh in my heart and hes moving on so quickly for fun and I'm dying here. I've talked to psychics even though most people dont believe in them I still do, and she told me he was meant to be with me it was god said so..or whatever and now :( please help...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): Stop! It's over! He's living his life, and you need to live yours.
You are feeling very down on yourself right now. That's common under these circumstances--we've all been through it. But trust me: He is not worth the misery.
Do something good for yourself. You deserve a love that's freely given, and it will eventually come your way.
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