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writes: I have a relationship with a gorgeous older woman. She is over 15 years older than I am. I am considering inviting her on a romantic weekend away. I am debating about whether or not it is a good idea to ask her on a weekend away. Is it a good idea? We often go out but have not slept over. We do kiss and sometimes make out. How could I ask her on this romantic weekend away? Is it good to write her a note tell her in person. Any tips for asking her?Do you think our age difference is a factor for her in deciding weather or not to go on a romantic weekend away? Might she be concerned about going away with a man over 15 years younger? I would enjoy a romantic weekend away with her. I would enjoy spending time with her in a different location, being together, and learning more about her. Would a romantic weekend away be a chance for our relationship to develop more deeply? Would a romantic weekend away be a chance for us to become more intimate? How could I help in making our relationship deeper and more intimate through a romantic weekend away?The main reason I am considering inviting her on a romantic weekend is for her enjoyment and to spend more time with her. Perhaps it may be a chance to make love to her. Do you think it may be a possibility? I have not told her but I would like to see her naked and have sex with her. Do you think a romantic weekend away would be a good setting to tell her this and for us to have sex for the first time? If I ask her and she agrees to go away with me how and when should I bring up my desire to make love/ have sex with her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (28 February 2009):
How would it not be a good idea?
You don't seem to be sure whether you are in a relationship with this woman or not since you are not sure she'd actually want to spend time / have sex with you.
Just ask her if she would like to go away with you.
Also you don't have to tell her that you want to see her naked / have sex... She will be able to work it out.
You sound quite inexperienced about these things if you don't mind me saying, so just be careful that you don't get your heart broken thinking you are in love when she sees you as a bit of fun. Talk to her about how she feels.
Good Luck!! xx
PS - Use condoms!
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