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writes:okay so,im 16,my boyfriend is 18 we have been together for almost a year now. he broke up with me after a month of beging together,and we got back together a week after. a few months after that, i broke up with him for another guy..(huge mistake!) but, after about a month, we got back together...then..only 2 months after, i did the stupid thing and broke up with him again because things just didnt feel..right i guess.. but he seemed to move on in 3-4 days.. he started hanging out with another girl it bothered the CRAP out of me. We didn't really talk very much after i found out about her, because it was constant fights. we got talking one night and he told me that he didnt want to be with me, because i only made him happy as a friend and he wanted things to go some where with this other girl. some of the other things he said to me still bother me. we've been back together for about 2 months now, and its been nothing but fighting. Every time we talk its an argument..about stupid things too! one night i got really mad at went out with this guy..just as friends.. we went back to his place, and things went farther then i was expecting. turns out, this guy is telling people he is in love with me :| ! It's been almost 2 weeks since that little incident, and we've hooked up 3-5 times! im start to fall for him, but i despite the fighting i have with my boyfriend, i love him alot. what the helll should i do !? (sorry if this is rreallyyy long ahah )
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reader, rambini  +, writes (28 February 2009):
 it sounds like although you may love your boyfriend, you are not good for each other. A relationship should not be constant fighting, you should make each other happy. since you have tried splitting up and this didn't improve matters, i think maybe its time to move on from this relationship. Take it slow with the other guy if you want to, see where it goes. You deserve a chance to be happy and not fight, good luck x
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