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writes:I know this guy (22), you could call us friends I guess. We we drunk and ended up kissing one night. He wanted to have sex but I said no and left. I found out the very next night he tried to do something with a random girl! And we went to a party with all of our mutual friends and he had sex with a girl that night. I really like him and I feel like crying when I see or hear about him hooking up with all these girls. And he hasnt really payed attention to me since I turned him down. His friends say Im so hot but he keeps hooking up with these ugly girls who are not very umm "intelligent". Does he not even care what they look like? Why is he such a slut?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): well guys can put you down a lot. he might really like you but since you said no he might think he isnt so hot. maybe thats why he's gooding for ugly girls. dont make it harder for you. you try asking him out.
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (28 February 2009):
 Some guys just sleep with random girls for the fun of it.
I know it sounds weird to girls but its just what some boys do who arn't ready to settle down with a serious relationship.
Well done for saying no. It proves you respect yourself. If this guy isn't intrested in having a relationship with you then leave it. I kno its hard if you really like a person but you will find someone who loves you for you not just sex.
Good luck
Livia
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reader, sweetcheeks3030 +, writes (28 February 2009):
 from my experience men act the slut until they find someone worth their time...so to speak! maybe hes not in the right frame of mind to want a relationship or maybe sex is the only way he knows how! i think you did the right thing turning him down,but if you like him you should tell him. i know its not always that easy but its the only way to find out (aside from asking one of his friends if he likes you)ive had kinda the same situation but mine was a rebound so its easy for me to move on...hope you get somewhere.good luck.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): Well i am glad u told him no and left after that kiss because if u did, u would have just been a number to him... its obvious he is just thinking about himself,well i cant answeer the question to you about why he is a slut, but some men dont need to hook up with a sexy 'intelligent' girl to have sex with them. obviously hes only out for the pleasure, and since u told him no, u probably hurt his ego so i suggest u ignore him and forget about him... not only is it better for u , but its the best thing to do...
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