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36-40,
*oingnuts
writes:So. I have a friend I've known since middle school and we have been hanging out together alot. I've expressed an interest in him, and he kind of backed away for a while. When I started kinda ignoring him he asked me out on a date and since then it's been really relaxed kind of hanging out. We agreed we want to take it slow.... But things are moving at snail pace and it's driving me nuts. I want to honor him and respect his pace, but I don't want to be drug along at the same time. I've been 100% honest with him all along and he hasn't even came out and told me he has intentions of being with me. Although he is very shy with girls, and all of his friends tell me he's never been so publically affectionate with any other girl... I'm still wondering what to do with this guy. Do I hang out and see what happens? Or should I tell him that I'm not really looking for a hang out partner when I care about him this much?
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (28 February 2009):
 If he is shy then you need to sit down and talk to him, you need to reassure him of your feelings! He may need a push! Just tell him how you feel for him and that you want to make it official if he intends to be with you. X
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