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writes:Color me confused here, but here is the situation. I met a guy online, we hit it off great. He was funny, intelligent, compassionate...all of the things women like. We have been chatting via phone and IM for a long time and then boom out of the blue, he starts playing head games...starts failing to respond to calls, or texts...Im's when "he feels like it." Or for example, after 3 days of not really communicating, out of the blue, IM's me. We chat, I get up to get a drink and tell him I'll brb, and he's signed out of IM!!He doesn't respond to the IM and Text Message I leave him on his phone...I thought to myself, "How rude!" So, I played it cool by leaving only one message something to the affect of "Hey know we are both busy today...catch up with you later sometime." Frankly I am confused, a little angry at the rude behavior and think maybe this one just wants to play head games even though he know we get along really well. OK, one more thing which is probably irrelevant, but, I'll throw it out there anyway...he's a Virgo (somewhat of a controller) and I'm a Sagg. Does this have an impact. Someone just tell me, is this guy interested or should I put him on a boat by himself and sail him out to sea?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): I hadn't heard of that book you mentioned but it sounds like it could be informative! I will definitely keep my eyes open for it! We all can use some help dealing with the opposite sex!!!!
I'm going to remember that title! So, Thank you too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Britt429! When in the world did getting to know someone turn into a science?! Sheesh! I swear I am buying that book just released by Steve Harvey, "Act like a lady, think like a man!" Thank you again for making me feel I wasn't going nuts. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): It does sound like he is playing games...almost like something better came along while you were getting a drink! How rude, indeed! I wouldn't send any more msgs. Don't let him know this is bothering you as much as it is! don't let him get the upper hand! Two can play this game! And I don't believe in playing head games, so times others leave us no alternative! If I were you I would consider moving on!
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