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writes:there is this girl that i like and she likes me back and now we are getting really close to each other, now the thing is i just have broken up with my girl for about a month and a half now, well now she is coming back to me and even said that she still loves me and i can see that i still have feelings for her but i also have feelings for the other girl, who do i choose?the girl i like is helping me with my studies, both of the girls are my batch mates( the girl i like is my classmate), she also listens to me when i have problems, but the problem is that her friends don't want me for her so they are really against this thing that we have, and cause of this she has to act cold to me when they are around but she said that she is there for me, and plus i am allowed to go to her house all the time, now for my ex the reason we broke up was that she wont give me her time like she would give more importance to other things like her friends than she would me, and even thou we talked about it before she still didn't do anything about but after we broke up i did something really bad to her and yet she forgave me and still said she loves me, she is also there for me, but i ant spend so much time with her cause she isn't legal making spending time with her difficult. i don't know who to choose cause i have feelings for both of them, help...
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (1 March 2009):
If you have feelings for 2 girls then it's safe to say that both sets of feelings can't be that strong.
So you do nothing. You get your head together, you see what happens. You might have a really strong feeling to one person but it just be a crush that faces quickly.
Take your time and don't act till you know what'll happen longer term. It's not worth risking anyone, including yourself, getting hurt.
Good Luck!! xx
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