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writes:i am afraid to kiss my boyfriend's penis or suck the fluid off him but he wants me to do that. is that safe is there no problem in sucking? is there a problem that can arise in the future from this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): Being from India,never do anything that you don't want your husband to know at a later date.These things always have a way of leaking out.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (28 February 2009):
 As others have mentioned, it is totally safe providing he is clean, healthy and disease-free. The content of sperm and semen is actually nourishing and non-fattening, as widely noted online and in literature, but I agree that you should indulge him only when your are ready and comfortable with the activity. In fact, he should first be willing to pleasure you orally with cunnilingus - it's only fair - then you can return the pleasure if you wish.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (28 February 2009):
 The only problems are the usual sexually transmitted infections, so until you have both been checked out at a sexual health clinic always make him wear a condom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): If you love him, at least give it a try. I remember at your age I felt that it was gross and disgusting. And now, I know it is all about keeping the love-making alive! Once you know what you are doing...it gets better...it is actually a turn-on!
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reader, adam barnes +, writes (28 February 2009):
 Well first you should only do it if you want to, not because he wants you to. But yes its safe to do otherwise people all over the world would not do it, you can have bad bacteria on the penis so be sure that its clean and ask him about his previous sexual partners so that it makes you feel secure and safe doing it. Hope this helps, Adam.
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