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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:We get along perfectly. We love each other but when we have an issue he won't work on it and runs away into his cave. I don't understand this. Why won't he try to work on it. We love each other and when we are together it is fabulous, it is when we are apart that things get crazy and thrown out of proportion and I get mad and he gets even madder because I am mad.Is he a lost cause or just afraid to open up again. I got mad becuase he was out with a group of friends without me and we were in the same restaurant. He came over to my table but I was so mad at him I walked away he says I was disrespectful because I did not say goodbye to him and embarrassed him. I was just angry and hurt. So now he is mad becaude I was disrespectful. He only sees his side to the story. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): Do you feel you were disrespectful??? You were out too! Why would you get so mad, unless he was doing something "shady." He came over to your table and showed you the respect you deserve. Why could you not do the same? Maybe we don't have all the details...
There seems to be a pattern here today on this site...communication and time to process...men vs woman. Men need time to process before communicating. They have enough trouble expressing feelings, we need to give them time to think about it!
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