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writes: Every time we get really close he seems to pull away. I know he was very hurt before by a girl he loved and who was very disrespectful to him not even going to his mothers funeral and they lived together for years. with me he loves but yet will find something little to get upset about and has to go into hiding for a while. when he talks to his male and female friends they usually think he is silly for even getting mad but whatever incident it is he always say it was being disrespectful. I love him very much and I know he loves me. When he pulled away once before i had a problem and he was the first one there. He says he will never let anyone hurt me but yet in anger and pulling away hurts me. He is not very ggod at talking about his emotions or riffs we might have - he says it is a girl thing and that he just needs space. i can i understand if he wont talk.If I push him to talk he retreats but yet we can go out have a good time and he wont discuss the issues which need to be talked about Help I am with a caveman
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): Don't waste anymore time on him. I just got out of a seven year relationship. I used to describe it the same way you are describing yours. I wouldn't listen to my family and friends, but now I realize they were right. He's not ready for a real relationship. Move on, if you can...
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