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Slow, slow, quick quick slow...?????

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Question - (28 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey,

I was wondering if people had any advice for me. I tried going on top of my boyfriend last night but it just wasn't really working. I was a bit drunk but I didn't really know what motion I was going for, the speed etc. so any advice on this would be appreciated.

Also, are there any tips on how to give good blowjobs? because I want to improve my technique.

many thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009):

Well being drunk won't help :)

It took me a while to get used to/good at being on top. I would suggest maybe getting onto your feet at first, its easier to move that way. If that's not your cup of tea then I would say to do whatever feels good to you. If your leg muscles aren't that strong you can get away with just grinding your pelvis back and forward, in a sort of rocking motion... but honestly we shouldn't be telling you this!

You should be in bed with your guy learning this stuff for yourself! There is no standardised technique that you have to learn. As for blowjobs, which I like to consider my speciality, every guy is different, so ask him and let HIM give you a little tutorial about what he likes.

Have fun!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009):

Go average, but consistant. As things reach that point, speed up and moan a lot. As for the other, it's not how deep you can go, but where you suck and lick, I like when she looks up and makes eye contact with me while she has a handful of my cock, and she's beating it like it owes her money, but BUT... moan and treat it like it's your last piece of candy youll have for 5 years!

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