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What makes me unattractive?

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Question - (28 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *luestorm writes:

I don't know if this question is out of place on here but basically Im 24 and no one thinks im attractive guys blank me all the time yet I think I look ok so it must be me thats deluded lol. At college in a sociolly lesson the teacher did this exersise with us (which I now realise was stupid)where we anonymously rated each other facial attractiveness. I got the lowest score an average of 4.8 out of 10 lower than the teacher lol. I don't get why everyone thinks Im so unattractive Im very quiet and shy so it cant be my personality. Here are some pics plz don't give me false compliments i just wanted to know what is it that makes me unattractive? I asked on another site and people said I was unatractive but never said why. Is it my face/style/hair or everything lol?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2009):

Wow your sociology teacher is a horrible, how did she think that exercise was going to not going to hurt someone badly????

I think you need to ask some friends about this. Putting photos up on the internet is never a good idea.

Go and get yourself a make up lesson in a department store or a new hair cut. Check your posture is ok and smile.

A bit of good honest advice from friends will go a long way. Also remember you are young and young guys are mostly idiots so you are not missing out on much.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009):

Do you wear makeup? Go to your local department store and have a free makeover with makeup lesson....you will be amazed how the proper application of makeup will make you more attractive...that and a flattering hair style. Go to a salon in an upscale neighborhood, put down the bucks for a new cut and possibly color......

Since I can't see your photos I am going on that hunch....and try to break out of your shell and at least smile...Shyness is something you are born with, most shy people are quite intelligent thus a little cautious, but you may be dressing dowdy to keep people away due to your innate shyness. People are just people, open up a little bit and show some interest in someone else and you will be surprised at just how attractive you are to others.

Take care.

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