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writes:I haven't kissed my boyfriend because I'm nervous. I won't feel the sparks like eveyone says, I really like him honestly I don't want to wreck it with a kiss and I don't want him to end it because I'm a bad kisser. I never kissed anyone so how do I kiss a boy like when do I know? He asked to kiss me but I said I don't know because I don't want to wreck it with a bad sparkless kiss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): the first kiss with my b/f was nice but no sparks. Trust me sometimes practice makes perfect. I love the way he kisses now. You need to "learn" the way each person kisses and respond to that kiss the way it feels right. Just kiss him , your lips will know what to do. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): Ha I was in ur position about 2 month ago. I kept thinking and trying to plan it out but in the end it just kinda happens. Me and my gf were just lookin in each others eyes and then "poof" we kinda leaned forward and i can't remeber anything after that till i opened my eyes again...and no ones really a bad kisser, if u can make contact with their lips, ur good becuz everyone kisses in their own unique way...and if this is ur 1st kiss dont try to make it complicated maybe just kiss for a few seconds. I found out its a lot easier to start out easy and work your way up from there...Well Good Luck!
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reader, Triskaedeka102  +, writes (8 March 2009):
 Ah, yes, sounds familiar. I am one just like you. I thought about it too too much. Wanna know how mine happened? I knew from his eyes he wanted to kiss me, then I just gathered all the courage to push myself over my scaredy cat barrier and kissed him. Mind you, first kiss doesn't have to be like in movies. And yes, just like what the other members had told you, it'll happen on the right time. There'll be a churn in your stomach that will make you lean ur face towards him, and poof! ;]
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): If all first great kisses result in everlasting love and friendship, then there would be no need for DearCupid and the millions of intimate self-help sites on the net. Alas, it's not true as you can see.
Not everyone is a natural good kisser, just as not everyone is a natural great race car driver, a natural great Olympian swimmer, or a world renown creative designer, diver, soldier, basketball player, pumpkin carver, cyclist, etc, etc, etc, etc.
Observation: practice makes perfect. If not, a kiss is hardly something to wreck a relationship. If it does, then the person of your affection is not worth your love in the first place.
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reader, molly4  +, writes (1 March 2009):
 First, take a nice deep breath. There's no reason to stress over something that hasn't happened yet and you don't really know when it's going to happen either. A first kiss is something that you usually don't plan - it just happens at the right time. I know that's a really lame answer, but it's true. If you try and plan something like your first kiss then of course you are going to be nervous and sweaty. But if you just go with the flow and let things take their course, chances are that kiss is going to come when you absolutely least expect it - you won't have time to get embarrassed. And you know what? Even if you are nervous, that's ok. Being a bit nervous is totally natural and we all get those butterflies in our stomach before going in for that big first smooch. Hope this helps!
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reader, Islander +, writes (1 March 2009):
 You're kinda funny. you think about it too much. just tell him that you never kissed someone before and he'll understand. and besides i didn't kiss anybody till i reached 11th grade and my girl told me that i was a great kisser and when i told her that she was my first kiss she was surprised by it the person above me is right just close your eyes and let your lips touch each other don't forget to relax by the way. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009): You're thinking about it too much, the key to a good kiss is to just let it happen. Don't think about it too much. I can remember my first kiss, it was great. I was surprised because we both had never kissed before. Just close your eyes, let your lips touch and it will happen.
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