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writes: i met a man at work whom was married, despite my beliefs we began to hang out after work with other people and it was instant attraction. this went on for about a month talking, nothing physical.one night we went to a friends house after work and were alone for the first time. after telling our stories we kissed and nothing else.the next day when i talked to him he told me when he got home that night he told his wife about what happened and that he was having feelings for someone he met at work.(me) in the meantime i moved out of my fiances house and they split up and started the divorce process.over the next several months him and i had a great relationship. we were always together and not that it matters but she knew about him and i. well all the stress from both of our past caused us to seperate, i went back to my ex and they got back together also. during the next few months him and i still spoke everyday, he told me he made a mistake and didnt want to be with her that he wanted to be back with me. just recently me and my ex split again and they split again. the thing is he doesnt want her to know about me this time and i feel like hes hiding me. he says he doesnt want her to know until the divorce is final so she cant get him any worse than she's already going to. he has 2 children and i have 1. i'm trying to understand where hes coming from but im having a hard time. is he hiding me for the reasons he says or is there something else behind it? PLEASE HELP! i know its a bad situation and i never should have got involved but i did and i really care for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): You both have breakups to get over. Wouldn't it be an idea to create a bit of space to do that instead of launching straight into something else anyway? You need time to heal.
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