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male
age
30-35,
*g2008
writes:My name is Chris and there is this girl i like. i dont think i've ever felt this way about any other girl before. We've know each other for about a year and we're really good friends and i'm ready to become more than friends. But i sometimes get the feeling that she doesn't want to be with me or around me. We both like each other but i'm having a hard time telling her exactly how i feel. i dont want her to think that she is just some other girl that i've dated. i want her to be the one that i spend the rest of my life with and build a family with no matter how old i might be right now. i know this is what i want. I just need to know how to tell her without making it seem awkward between us.
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reader, Love4Life +, writes (24 April 2009):
 Well it's simple. I wrote my Wife letters. I used to say or confuse what I wanted to say but it never came out right. So I started some love letters. I was able to say what I wanted to say and she would reply. I was 25 and she was 23 at the time. It sound juvenile but she thought it was sweet and I got out what I needed to say that I couldn't say to her directly. I suggest you tell her whats weighing down your heart. Be responsible and let her know you know your young but your heart belong to her. Sometimes we need to get out whats weighing down our minds or we come off to needy or annoying. You know her best so be true to her and yourself.
P.S. Ive been with my wife for 6 years and we still have days we do our own thing. I would spend every second of everyday with her but I know we all need time to ourselves or even the best married people would go crazy. Hope this has helped.....
Miah
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