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I'm young, inexperienced and wish to be more gentle sexually

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Question - (24 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2009)
A male United States age 26-29, *oushite writes:

umm hi im 13 (young i think). i have a 3 1/2 penis and i think its short for my gf. my gf says she wants it to be pleasurable for the first time but i dont wanna hurt her.

will there be anyway to be more gentle?

im also afraid that i cant last for very long time will that upset a girl?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009):

1. your way too young

2.your penis probably hasnt grown enough to its actual size

3.wait a while before you do anything

you arent ready for sex and things that go with it.

i have a little sister who is 13 and would hate it if she was having sex at this age!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009):

13? Really?

Why?

Why on earth would you want to have sex at 13? It's not gonna be good or fun or feel even particularly great, considering your ages. Plus, I don't know about wherever you live, but where I live, the age of consent is 16, and sex with a 13-year-old is inevitably rape of a child until age 14, at which time it becomes statuatory rape. If you guys had a hard breakup... I wouldn't want that barge pitted against me.

3.5 inches is fine--you're 13! 13 is VERY young. I don't know how long you'll last, but no matter how long, it won't be a good... Few minutes. I think you should reconsider and wait until you are READY because clearly you aren't.

Hope this helped,

-GG

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009):

Well you are too young to be having sex. And if you're girlfriend is your age, the you will be committing statutory rape.

The fact that you are asking these particular questions makes me think you haven't thought this through yet, and don't actually know very much about sex.

If you want to know how to make things good for your girlfriend, the best thing you can do is ask her yourself. If she really wants this, and I mean really wants it, then for goodness sake get some protection and at least do tons of reading up before you go ahead. Make sure you know what you are getting into. Because if there's anything I know about having sex at this age, it's that it usually ends up embarrassing, uncomfortable, weird and just plain bad.

Can you wait a little till both of your bodies mature? At least until the legal age of consent? In the meantime start educating yourself. Instead of thinking about penis size, think about how you are going to locate and pleasure your girlfriend's clitoris. And instead of thinking about how long you are going to last, focus on how long you are going to be with this girl, whether you have thought of ways to be safe.

I know at your age everyone is telling you what to do, but trust me, sex at this age is not a good idea.

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A male reader, pure shade 5 United States +, writes (24 April 2009):

pure shade 5 agony auntyour not sopoce to care about the size u cant help that like me i wish i had a smaller dice belive it or not but i would rather have a 6in then this 10in but oh well u can try talking to her she should be able to understand your condition and there are pills for some stuff u know

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009):

First off your too young to even be thinking about having sex. You or our girlfrind are not fully devloped and are in no way shape or form that comes with having sex lets say for instance getting her pregnat and having a baby. This will ruin you lives and make your life tuffer in the long run. No there is no way to be more gentle and to anwswe your last question yes it will matter that you cant last that long cause women need pleasure as much as men. But like I said before you are way too young to be even thinking about having sex at your age.

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