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writes:I'm supposed to go down on my boyfriend tonight and I don't want to. The first and only time I did it, I decided it should be the last. I've had other boyfriends and had no problem doing it, actually I liked it. But my boyfriend is uncut and there is a FOUL odor even after he showers. In addition to this, there is so much pre-fluids that I can't believe it, I've never seen so much in my life. Why is there so much and Why does it smell so bad? I haven't said anything yet because if there is something I can do then I would prefer not to hurt his very very delicate feelings. But if I have to, I will. Should I have to suck on something that makes me want to vomit? Reply to this Question
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reader, CandyCakes +, writes (24 April 2009):
I agree with everyone else, he just might not be using enough soap on the boys when he showers...Especially since he is uncut it means he should spend more time washing especially under the foreskin because gross bacteria can get trapped in there.
But...
Lots of fluid and foul odors can be a sign of an STD or an infection. If your boyfriend turns out to really shower quite frequently, then it might be this sort of medical problem.
If the smell doesn't go away, tell him to ask his doctor next time he goes.
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reader, Harry Castle  +, writes (24 April 2009):
 I agree with all that has been said, but I have an additional worry. If he has a problem other than poor hygiene, not only is he potentially putting HIS health at risk, but in expecting you to lick, suck and likely ingest nasty things, who knows what the outcome might be for you?With him, it's just on his cock; with you, it can get into your bloodstream!Send him to his doctor right away.Good luck.Harry.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (24 April 2009):
 He cant be washing properly if there is still a smell after he showers, I think all you can do is talk to him I'm afraid!
Think about it carefully before you do talk to him if he is pretty sensitive, plan exactly what you are going to say and find the nicest possible way to say it. You shouldnt have to do anything that makes you feel sick so you need to talk to him.
If you dont speak up but dont go down on him either, he will end up worrying that there is something wrong and he will come up with all sorts of bizzare reasons - like you dont fancy him anymore, you are cheating....the male mind works in mysterious ways! So it is better to be honest with him than to just not bother doing it - not saying anything will only lead to more problems. He wont even realise there is a smell - just talk to him and I'm sure he wont be too upset by it.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (24 April 2009):
 You could suggest showering together before anything happens? He probably doesn't clean it properly, the foreskin needs to be pulled back to remove any build up of smegma! Just tell him how you feel, I'm sure that he won't mind showering. X
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