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30-35,
anonymous
writes:One of my best friends hates me! It started yesterday, after we had athletics, and he was taking the mickey out of my running. I got really annoyed so I lightly kicked him. He was laughing at the time, but I was still really annoyed.Then, after lunch, one of his friends came up to me and said: "Why did you kick him?" and then he said: "Yeah, I don't like you anymore."This triggered my panick attacks. So I had one, and was out of the lesson for a while. I came back, and he was totally blanking me one minute, then giving me horrid looks the next. Then I came into school today and he didn't speak to me or even look at me.I know I'm tottaly over exaggerating, it's not the end of the world. To me right now it feels like it. My chest has an empty pain in it, and every time I saw him or heard his voice, I felt like crying. The worst thing is, it seems to not have affected him at all. He was laughing and joking as normal today.I have no idea what will happen next, because he is very insensitive and holds grudges for a long time. I go to Youth Theatre, and I don't want him to tell all of my friends there about it, because they will all hate me too!I'm going to the doctors soon about my panick attacks, but I just want this horrible pain gone and my friend back. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): Most guys seam to be like that at that age totaly immature & take everything to heart.
Personaly I think HE over reacted.
Try & get him on his own & have a talk with him if he really is your best mate use will sort it out no probs.
If that dose not work f*ck him.
A few of my guy mates were like that at that age I just ignored them un-till they grew up a bit.
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reader, RonZ  +, writes (24 April 2009):
 Yeah I agree with her, problems like this usually needs a talkathon with the person involved. This aint healthy for yah, its either you confront him try to apologize and try to fix the misunderstanding or just let it slide.
You'll see true friendship manifest itself in times like this. Don't worry its not like he lost a leg coz you kicked him. All will be sorted out when you talk with him. ;)
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (24 April 2009):
 Why don't you approach him when he is on his own and apologise for hurting him? If he is alone he will more than likely accept and the two of you can be friends again. If you feel as if you can't do this then you will just have to ride it out. I don't think he will tell his other friends and even if he does they won't hate you! People who already know you will remain the same around you! To put it into perspective; he is just one person, he is being weird with you! People won't follow him if they know you, you seem like a very nice person and i'm sure your friends will stand by you. Eventually the heat of this situation will calm down and everyone will return to normal! X
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