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26-29,
*randycdi
writes:Well I get bullied at school by this very mean Asian girl. Her name is Amen and she is so mean she calls me a fag, stupid, retarded, but mosty she calls me ugly and I don't know what do to =[ What should I do?
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reader, adviceauntie  +, writes (10 June 2012):
i think its important to tell somebody, as hard as that can be, i myself have been in similar situations and from personal expirience i no that its better to let it out, make sure you tell someone you trust this could be:
.a parent
.teacher
.gurdian
or a nother trusted adult.
its best not to retaliate to ther bullying and 'bully' back becuase you could get yourself into trouble too, dont wait for it to happen, go and tell somebody now, for your own benifit, together we can stop bullying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): Talk to someone about it. Your parents, friends or a teacher. Don't just let it continue.
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reader, cls1990 +, writes (24 April 2009):
 i was bullied at school too, all the teachers were involved but unfortunately the bullying only got worse & i ended up leaving the school.
my sister goes to the same school & after i left they made a big effort to put a better anti-bullying programme into place, if i hadnt of stood up & told somebody this wouldnt be there today.
tell a teacher that you trust, show the bullies that they cant break you like they did me, be strong & whatever you do, dont jepordise your education for that girl!
also tell your parents so they know what your going through & can support you through this horrible time
Pm me if you need me
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): Hi When someone is bullied at school no one can understand what they are going through unless they are going through it or have been there themselves.It is easy to say stand up to them or tell someone but if I am right you are worried about the consequences of doing this? People who bully are actually weak themselves, they tend to hang around in groups and do most of their bullying when they are with others not when they are alone and do you know why? Because they are afraid themselves although they would never admit it.Unfortunately you really do need to tell someone anyone be it a friend a teacher a parent a brother or sister or even a cousin you will be suprised how much it can help to take the weight off your shoulders by talking and who knows someone may come up with an idea to help your situation.Have you thought about setting up an anti bullying group at school which is run by students for students to come and talk to and try to eradicate bullying? My daughters school has such a thing in place and it is very effective and helpful, speak to someone with authority at you school to see if they can help or make any suggestions. Trust me if you are part of an anti bullying group at school you will find that bullys will probably leave you alone because they risk being caught.I do hope that this is of some use to you and good luck. If you have any more concerns and no one to turn to dont hesitate to come back to this site, there are plenty of people ready to try and advise you known or anon either way it generally is good advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): You should tell a counselor. If she doesn't stop you should defend yourself by standing up to her. That way she knows you won't let yourself get hurt of what she is saying. Also remember that bullies usually bully the weak so be strong and don't let it bother you. Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): ok seriously, no one has the right to bully. There's always a reason behind it. Try ignoring her and stay strong. Look at her, smile, don't say anything and walk away, proving you are better than her and you don't care what she says about you, even if you really do. It's all about staying strong. You can let your guard down with close, trustworthy friends and come home and cry, but as long as she thinks you're strong, she'll eventually stop. Hope this helps, :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): Please run to your counselor and report!No one has the right to bully you! Please be very firm to her and tell that you will get action against her if she doesn't stop. Avoid her as much as possible, you don't need such bad company. And please do tell every adult possible. teachers, parents, all. All the best to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): Your counselor is the first person you should go to....if your parents are unavalable, see what you can do there. But in the end you will eventually have to stand up for your self. It can seem very hard at your age and we have all had to do it at some time.. myself included.
Even if you loose (wether it be an argument or whatever) you at least spoke your peace.
she is never going to stop until you make it stop. Whether it be by you going to the princable every day and then eventually to the school board. You do not have to put up with this torment.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): Tell someone, honey.
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