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writes:I'm in love, stupid or confused?2 years ago i joined my firm, and we have a very beatifull secretary who i got attracted to the first day i saw her. Then i thought it was a typical reaction so i figured i will get over it. It has been two years and my feeliing towards this lady has really grown..im being modest..i'm crazy about her. Unfortunatelly i cannot ask her out because i'm married. She knows that i'm married, we have hanged out on work lunches together and she seems like hanging out with me. I CANNOT TELL WHETHER she has feelings for me or we're just friends. Trust me i'm not trying to cheat, it just this crazy thing happens everytime i see her. My heart beats first, i want to talk to her but i loose the words to say..sometimes crazy ideas are running in my head when i'm with her..Please help ME and tell me I'm I in love, stupid or confused?Thanks, Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks every one for the answers.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (24 April 2009):
 YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A GREEN LIGHT TO CHEAT ON YOUR WIFE!
plain and simple!
Dont even deny it. Look at your words very carefully. I think that you have every intention of cheating on your wife(if you haven't already...emotionally you have for sure)
Put the shoe on the other foot. What if this was your wife that was attracted to the guy she works with.
So stop being a pussy, man up and fix things with your wife. You owe it to her and your marriage every opportunity to be repaired before you take the Cheating step. You cant come back from that, and any excuse for cheating is not a good one. THERE IS NO EXCUSE EVER!
GROW A PAIR DUDE!
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