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*errilysinger
writes:My ex boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago and is currently in a class teaching much to my surprise, he put himself there because he knew from the school list I was in that class. He is always looking at me and sometimes he says hi. But the other day he signaled to talk to me when I only wanted to get my work back. He talked to me nicely outside but at the end of our conversation he says Please give me some space. I was totally confused and I thought it was weird. I have not contacted him for months and he put himself into this class maybe just to give me grief. I care about him but it seems weird that he would tell me that. He looks at me with interest still but nothing happens. I think he is playing a game of control or what? He could of just given me the paper but wanted to talk about really nothing. His body language says it all. a little annoyed,My response to him was I only wanted my paper back and if I need help I will go to the professor. And I said good bye. What am I supposed to think. Is he thinking of returning to me or is it just his a game?
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reader, merrilysinger +, writes (24 April 2009):
merrilysinger is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe issue here is that I do not look for his attention. He looks for mine and it is upsetting that he does not let things go so I can feel comfortable in this class and get over him. He did have the choice of going where he wanted to teach they do it all the time. The reason he signaled me to talk was that on Friday night he saw me another guy at a club. His friends came over to greet me and then He walked out 5 minutes later after sulking when there are two doors. he left the one closest to where I was. His body language is different since this incident but my reply when he told me please I need some space was I only wanted my paper said thank you and I walked away while he looked surprised and watched me, walk away. He also kept insisting I needed his help, I replied I did not ask you for anything. So if he is not going anywhere with this why then does he not let it go?
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reader, merrilysinger +, writes (24 April 2009):
merrilysinger is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe issue here is that I do not look for his attention. He looks for mine and it is upsetting that he does not let things go so I can feel comfortable in this class and get over him. He did have the choice of going where he wanted to teach they do it all the time. The reason he signaled me to talk was that on Friday night he saw me another guy at a club. His friends came over to greet me and then He walked out 5 minutes later after sulking when there are two doors. he left the one closest to where I was. His body language is different since this incident but my reply when he told me please I need some space was I only wanted my paper said thank you and I walked away while he looked surprised and watched me, walk away. He also kept insisting I needed his help, I replied I did not ask you for anything. So if he is not going anywhere with this why then does he not let it go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): I could be wrong, but I don't think he got to choose the class he taught- the school usually assigns that. He told you to give him some space which means he thinks you are angling for his attention by staring at him too much or something? I don't think he's playing a game, just doing his job. It's obvious you want him back but it doesn't look good.
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