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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend told me since he's been with me he hardly ever watches porn. i was fine with it at first, but now it really eats me up. when i look on the computer and find out he's been looking at it, i fell like i'm not enough, i mean i do everything that a pornstar would, he says i do it better, yet he still watches porn. i don't want to tell him to stop watching it cuz it'll create an argument. does anyone know of any type of software i can download that subtly limits what you can and cannot look up on the internet so that he doesn't know it was me that put the restriction on and so that he thinks there's something wrong with the internet instead of it being a manual restriction? i can't handle this anymore it's making me depressed and i feel so betrayed please help
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reader, Love4Life  +, writes (24 April 2009):
 Rule # one We men are dogs. We try not too be but we are when it comes down to it. My advice is be honest with him. Let him know how it makes you feel. I myself will look at porn but it's usually when my wife is neglecting me. I have told her this and really feel ashamed when I have to resort to porn. If she told me it bothered her I would stop. Some guys get so used to looking at porn we don't even think how its effects our other half. Just be open about it. He sounds like a lucky man if you do try new things all the time. Tell him how you feel and hopefully he will try and cut out his porn. If he feels he lacking something ask him. In my book the real thing is 100% better than any porn site. Hope I've been of help...Miah
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