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writes:Okay... Here's my isue: there is this guy in my some of my classe that is attracted to me.... He's black but he is really nice be smart.... I'm not sure if I like him but one of my friends who sits at my lunch table told be that he like me buy idk if I can beleive her cause she lies sometimes.... This kid was just recently suspended because he was in gym and some kid caked him he n word.... He didn't do aything besides tell the teacher but of suspended anyways! I don't think my parents will aprive of him because of this if he does ask me out.... I don't know if I should beleive my friend or just wait for him to ask me out.... What do you think? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): See if he asks you out first and then worry about the rest. There's no point in worrying about something that hasn't happened.
Are you attracted to him BECAUSE your parents wouldn't like him? Is there some sort of romance in that idea?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (24 April 2009):
 Well until he does actually ask you out you have nothing to worry about. At the moment, you have no idea if he likes you (only some gossip from someone who is known to lie) and you dont know if he likes you. So you are thinking about this whole thing too much - just chill out!
If he does ask you out then there would be no harm in saying yes, you just need to get to know him before you start judging him. I'm sure your parents wont mind - as long as he is a nice guy and treats you right your parents will be happy. All a parent wants for their child is to be happy - so if he makes you happy then mum & dad will be happy too!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (24 April 2009):
 There's nothing wrong with the fact that he is black. A lot of people don't approve of whites and blacks dating, but if he is mature, respects you, and neither of you engages in risky behavior (you know what I mean), then there's no reason you shouldn't date him. People are narrow minded sometimes.
If he didn't tell you he likes you, then it's just hearsay. If you're not sure if you like him, then you had better think about it, and be sure how you feel about him before you talk to him about your feelings. If you act like you really like him, and he falls for you, and you get tired of him, he will get hurt and feel led on.
Just talk to him and be his friend, and sort out your feelings.
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