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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i met a guy... we lived in same apartment... first... he acted very very nice to me...i have never been treated that nice before... we became friends... he talked to me everyday... it was fun. but things went out of control... he started making me doing stuffs with him... at first i refused... but he kept insisted... i love him... and he knew...i gave in in the end. things going on for 3 months. when he suddenly went back to his hometown. then we didnt see each other for quite long. after he's back he said he moved out already. i don't know where. i thought we can still talk through emails or IM... but we barely talk later... he ignores my mails.. and sometimes he said he's very busy and don't have time to talk to me. so i stop bothering him. even though i was very lonely and sad... i asked what's wrong... he said nothing. and that's it. when i asked whether he ever likes me or not... he didnt reply me. ignore me again and again. i tried to stop talking to him... but he kept coming back and talks to me saying he's sorry for being cold before... and then he would ignore me again. the whole cycle... what should i do...?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 April 2009):
You continue to ignore him.
He's getting desperate to keep you around because a girl who will let herself be used as a doormat and cheap sextoy is hard to find.
Keep ignoring him. You KNOW he's going to use you again if you let him.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI start to ignore all of his calls and everything... messages... then until this one time, he said he's sorry again... and he said he loves me too... i really don't know what i should do... at first when i said i love him he said nothing... and hurt me... and then after i ignore him he said he loves me... what should i do...thanks for the replies though...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): He treat you nice, I don't think so Girl. He is treating you like a door mat and you need to slam your door in his face! A real man would never be so rude and cold, you deserve better! So, stop contacting him period and don't answer his calls. Find a man that will make you the center of his world and treat you like a lady.
Tell that loser to beat it and move on. Take care.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 April 2009):
Honeygirl is right.
He uses you when he's in the mood and then dumps you.
He doesn't like you, he just knows that you'll give him what he wants.
Get him out of your life. You deserve better!
No woman should allow herself to be used like this.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (24 April 2009):
 Sweetie, this guy is a user and abuser. Stay away from him, dont contact him and ignore him when he tries to contact you. You dont need his nonsense in your life!
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