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*oral.
writes:I have been getting to know this guy for a month or so now, I really like him, and I know he likes me back. But last night my best friend told me how one of friends (who we have hung out with recently) fancies me. I don't like him, only as a friend, but heres the problem. No other girl will give him a chance because of how he looks. I don't fancy him because I already like this other guy, but how would I 'turn him down' so to speak, wiothout it looking like just another one of those girls?
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reader, Loral. +, writes (25 April 2009):
Loral. is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for your help everyone..I haven't seen him since I find out, but thank you, I don't want to hurt the poor guys feelings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): It's nice to hear you are concerned for his feelings as a lot of people just wouldn't care. It says a lot of good things about you.
Just tell him you like him as a friend and tell him some of his good points, but be honest that you are interested in someone else. Probably best not to tell him who.
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reader, Love4Life  +, writes (24 April 2009):
 I agree with satin. Just be blunt in a nice gentle way. Like Satin phrased it. It sounds a little hard to be truthful but if you lie or putt it off you will hurt their feelings more. Just remember don't make up a lie cause it seems easier but will always come back to bite. Hope this was helpful...
Miah
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