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*rincessjasmine
writes:Hey guys,So my friend made me talk to this guy who lives about 6 hours away. Hes becoming a teacher jsut like me. We have been talking online this whole week. Hes def cool, i think he's a typical guy: zombies, aliens, video games, fighting, and super heroes (and hes 24 lol) Im fine with all that, I jsut feel like at times, he can be a little mean, or am i just being too sensitive? I want this to work out, but Idk if hes just being an asshole b/c he thinsk its "cool" or if he doesnt know wen to stop joking. I even said to him ur A MEANIE hes like really nice ppl are creepy and have alterior motives. He called me: a little girl, he said girls up north like tall men and their so superficial, he said all we run after is a pretty face, hes totally stereotyping! is he just joking arounnd? and he'll say weird things like i have strep throat so he goes: punch it in the mouth (what????) The reason why im thinking about him is because, I feel like therse soft side to him, and i love that hes this big kid, i think hes a respectable guy (i need to get to know him more.) Do you think hes an asshole? and wont change? or will it be different once we meet?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): Some things dont come across well on the internet & some people forget that maybe hes just being silly.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (24 April 2009):
 I think it is going to have to be a face-to-face meeting for you decipher whether he is an asshole or not. I mean yes you can kind of tell through words on a screen about some people, but you've been talking to him for only a week?
Thats not enough time. You better have a face to face (with others present...I dont condone blind meetings of online friends without some backup, you dont want to be anyone's dinner..lol).
But reserve judgement until after you meet him
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reader, cattatonic +, writes (24 April 2009):
 What is his astrological sign? I always ask that before I go forward. If u let me know I can give u my opinion about whether or not he is just being a dick or being sarcastic. Some guys do try too hard to be cool. So it may be that. But he shouldn't make you feel bad about yourself. And is all of your correspondence online? Sometimes things come across wrong in writing. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): I think kthat he's very immature and probably doens't even realise that you like him
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): Hmmmm. Sounds like he is what you say! Thinking someone will change or that you can change them will only lead to hurt feelings on both sides and on top of that he is to far away. You know what they say, "walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, then most likely you got a duck. If you have reservations already chances are you should just have him as your friend for now and leave it at that. There has to be some nice men in your town that are just dying to meet you :) choose one of them and then you can get to know them IRL, not on the net. Best of luck and I hope you find your prince charming, it's a big sea out there ya know so don't settle for ok when you can have great.
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