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female
age
36-40,
*ntofa
writes:I have this friend we are very close if there is a problem he would call me. i started haveing feelings for him but i did not tell him for a while after a period of time i could not take it any more so i told him, he then informed me that he has feelings for me as well but cant go out with me as he did not want 2 hurt me. we do every thing together, we kiss act like a couple but he said he would not have sex with me untill we are married. i dont know whats happening he has never told me he love me and when i asked he says he loves only himself i dont know if he just dont want to tell me his feeling help i dont know what to do
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 April 2009):
Well the best way to handle a guy who can't make a decision is to simply tell him it's not good enough for you.
Tell him you want a boyfriend who loves you and you are going to get hurt if you stay with him.
Then cut contact with him.
If he loves you then he will come after you. If he doesn't then he will accept that it's for the best and you will be free to find some one who does love you.
Good Luck!! xx
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