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writes:so there's this guy that i've had feelings for for about a year. in a nut shell this is our history:meet at party, and flirt alot.i develope feelings.he tells a friend of mine (without him knowing we were friends) that he has feelings for me.i confess feelings,he says that its possible.and then he gos away for a really long time.come back, we party, and make out drunk.more then once...on more then one occasion.i confess my even stronger feelings to him, he says he doesnt feel the same.blah blah blah.he used to call me everynight up untill i told him how stronge my feelings were.he came to my house fro a week over spring break, since then, he's been calling me every night.and talking untill 1 or 2 am.prom is coming up, and i still didnt have a date.my feelings for him, are kind of on the back burner right now ebucase in january he made it very clear he didnt want to be with me.but now, he's calling me every night.and just talking about nothing.and so, i figured, why not just ask him to prom.like, just as friends.so i asked him.he said yes, and that he was planning on offering to go with me anyways, but that he didnt want to confuss me.i asked what that ment, and he siad that he didnt want me to stop looking for the right guy for prom, or turn anyone down just buecase he agreed to go with me.now,i really do still want to be with him.problem is, i have no idea how to go about this, see if feelings have changed at all, or anything.like, we're kind of in the akward friends only zone now.so, help?also, possible that he's just a commitmentaphobic?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHa ha ha thanks :)
Not commitment. Lol like I think he's afraid of.. Not being able to run around with other girls. That's all. Not talking marriage! Lmao
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (24 April 2009):
 Its great that you're going to the prom as friends, but that's all your going to be. He must not like you anymore as anything more than a friend. If he likes you then he'll tell you, if he doesn't then just leave it. And you're only young so its not normal to think of commitment!!!!! X
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