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writes:I need some advice, as I don't know where I am going wrong. I am 24 (Female) and I can't ever seem to get a boyfriend, I work with a mix of males and females, mostly males, and a lot of them comment on my looks, but no one ever asks me out.Anyway, there is a guy who I have liked for a while and he said he liked me, we exchanged numbers and we arranged to meet up, he didn't show, no explination, I didn't want to ask big mistake) we got over it and then we have been flirting for a while and one day we kissed and I get the impression he likes me a lot and in his messgaes he says he likes me, anyway I asked him if he wanted to meet up for a chat because we haven't seen each other for a while and he hasn't replied. So I get it he's not interested but I don't understand why guys wont go out with me.A few years ago I did start seeing someone but he only wanted to see me at his place and we would never go out and he never introduced me to his mates, this went on for about four months before I finally thought, if I am that bad why do you want to be with me and it really knocked my confident. I also have to say that I am a virgin so he wasn't gettng any, but that was mainly his choice.I just want to find a guy who wants me, I might not looking like a model but I am not overweight, smelly or ugly, I am just normal but after this it has knocked my confidence again and I don't want to see him because I don't know how to act around him,.Help.
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (24 April 2009):
I know how you feel, the bait is on the hook and yet the fish are not biting. The best thing you can do get out there and meet guys, one will eventually succumb to your charms. You might even meet one in your position.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): Maybe he did like you but he was shy or got a girlfriend don't worry about it i'm sure that you'll meet someone and im really sure that it's not you that's the problem :)
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reader, ALONSO80  +, writes (24 April 2009):
Sounds like there's absolutely nothing wrong with you. I am a male. I think you're just meeting the wrong guys!! maybe there's something in your personality that drives men distant? It has happened to me. I'm not a bad looking guy yet some time I find it hard to meet a real lady. well It happens to the best of us.
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